What would be your ideal conjunction to have in a natal chart,or do you already have that?

I have Venus, Moon and Ur all conjunct. Moon and Ur are in Cancer. Woo hoo, what a roller coaster it was when I was younger. I think I was the definition of manic-depression! However, now that I understand that I can't watch scary movies, or watch news stories of animal or child abuse, or look at road kill, I'm proud of the deep feelings I have and how much empathy comes naturally to me. And how much it helps other people. Plus I have a natural understanding of people with emotional or mental problems, I just know what they are feeling or trying to say. Its invaluable in my field of work.